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My life so far: the wins, the bounces, and the lessons I learned the hard way.

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The Illusion Of Control

The Illusion Of Control

January 1, 2023

I’ve been learning about control for a little more than 25 years. My initial work was on myself, and to this day, I strive to consider what I have control...
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What You Want

What You Want

November 30, 2022

My career has been a long series of “finding out what people want or need, then giving it to them”.  That, in very few words is how to succeed in...
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Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy

Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy

October 31, 2022

This is a tribute article but more to the future than the past. My friend and mentor, Rich Clark, passed suddenly at 71 last month. Rich spent the first 18...
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Mom and Dad

Mom and Dad

By Stella McCarthy

August 29, 2022

Because my Mom and Dad are here now   --Stella McCarthy This was my three year old granddaughter’s (pictured to the right) answer to my question, “why are you acting...
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Three Questions

Three Questions

August 29, 2022

My son, Timmy, listened patiently to my complicated description of a tough decision then asked me three simple questions: What is my goal? Why is that my goal? What will...
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Processing Input

Processing Input

July 30, 2022

“You don’t trust me”. It hit me like a brick to the side of my head. But as I’ve grown older, I try hard to process input that I don’t...
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Reciprocal Giving

Reciprocal Giving

June 30, 2022

Sounds oxymoronic.  It’s not. Exhibit 1:  When my Mom would hand a valuable keepsake to one of her children, I’d say “but Mom, you loved that piece”.  She’d respond: “I’d...
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Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket

Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket

May 30, 2022

Each of us operates with a voice inside our head, our life’s narrator. Narrator seems a good term since it’s the voice that judges every thought we have, every action...
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The Business of Good

The Business of Good

April 30, 2022

An owner/CEO recently asked me, “how do I start a foundation, so that I can give back?” My response was, “why not imbed giving into your business model?” While starting...
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Time Stretching Exercises

Time Stretching Exercises

March 31, 2022

Oliver Burkeman subtitled his book 4,000 Weeks “time management for mortals”. Time and mortality are tough subjects that Burkeman faces head-on and with creativity and humor uncommon to self-help books....
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The Softening of Age

The Softening of Age

February 28, 2022

Six of my nine brothers and sisters who remain earthbound gathered to kibbutz for a few days recently.   I was struck by the words my poet sister used in...
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Stopping or Starting

Stopping or Starting

January 31, 2022

Starting things is what I’ve become good at. Stopping?   Not so much. Each fall, I review what I learned from the current year.   Then, using that information, I...
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Originals

Originals

December 27, 2021

Famous quotes are enjoyable and instructive. I’ve compiled hundreds of my favorites since I began writing these newsletters in July of 1988. Most are from legendary folks like Churchill and...
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The News Cyclone

The News Cyclone

November 30, 2021

The question: Does media reflect or form culture – was a hot topic at the time I was a young marketing professional. It’s a classic “chicken or the egg” philosophic...
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Old Wishes

Old Wishes

October 30, 2021

A few months ago, my friend, Chris, shared this quote: “Ask yourself, Tim, what do you have now that you once wished for”? The thought was particularly interesting since he’s...
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Forever Young

Forever Young

By Bob Dylan

October 29, 2021

Editor’s note:   I enjoy the extreme pleasure of playing out with my son, Kevin.  Recently we were invited to his old neighborhood in Connecticut to play an outdoor family...
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Who are you talking to?

Who are you talking to?

September 30, 2021

In every marketing presentation for thirty years, my opening theme is the same: tell me how you build, update and use your customer lists and I’ll tell you how efficient...
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She’s Leaving Home

She’s Leaving Home

By John Lennon, Paul McCartney, Manuel Barrueco, David Tanenbaum

August 30, 2021

Editor’s Note:   The great legacy of the Beatles is in two pillars: 1. They explored a variety of musical approaches much wider than anyone before or since and 2....
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Take the Time

Take the Time

By Richard T. Good

August 30, 2021

Take whatever time you think it will take, Tim, to start your business and double it.   Then, triple that. - Richard T. Good
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Free Hand and Imperfect Heroes

Free Hand and Imperfect Heroes

June 30, 2021

A dear friend and wonderful private blogger, Carll Tucker, wrote me after reading last month’s newsletter to ask what Father Norm Smith, one of those I admired , meant by...
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Who do you Admire?

Who do you Admire?

May 30, 2021

My favorite blogger, Seth Godin, said recently that “ Attitude follows action far more often than action follows attitude.”  So, today, I’m writing about the people I admire most in...
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