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My life so far: the wins, the bounces, and the lessons I learned the hard way.

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Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes
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Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes

By Tim McCarthy

July 2, 2023

People resist change and most are successful at doing so…unless and until something dramatic happens.  Health crises seem to be the most motivating but also losing a loved one can...
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Write to Understand
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Write to Understand

By James “Scotty” Reston

May 31, 2023

"I write in order to understand what I think."
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June Laugh
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June Laugh

By Tim McCarthy

May 31, 2023

What do you call a person who is happy on Mondays? Unemployed
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Music Lessons
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Music Lessons

By Tim McCarthy

May 31, 2023

What is music’s role in your life?   Reflect for a moment; enjoy the rumination.   For most, there are songs and artists who played in the background of some...
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Motivating Quotes
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Motivating Quotes

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February 28, 2023

For me, quotes are collections of words that make me think.   Whether famous or just from friends and family, my favorites cause behavior changes.   Below are from the...
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View from the Bottom
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View from the Bottom

By Tim McCarthy

January 31, 2023

The youngest of our three, Caitlin, and I have talked many times about the effects of watching our older siblings as we grow up. I had four sisters and four...
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The Illusion Of Control
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The Illusion Of Control

By Tim McCarthy

January 1, 2023

I’ve been learning about control for a little more than 25 years. My initial work was on myself, and to this day, I strive to consider what I have control...
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December Laugh
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December Laugh

By Tim McCarthy

November 30, 2022

From Frank Bruni’s newsletters, here are a few great business names, delivered weekly by his readers.  PS Thanks to Carl Falb A plumbing company in Ithaca, N.Y., called  the Drain...
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What You Want
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What You Want

By Tim McCarthy

November 30, 2022

My career has been a long series of “finding out what people want or need, then giving it to them”.  That, in very few words is how to succeed in...
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Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy
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Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy

By Tim McCarthy

October 31, 2022

This is a tribute article but more to the future than the past. My friend and mentor, Rich Clark, passed suddenly at 71 last month. Rich spent the first 18...
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September Laugh
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September Laugh

By Tim McCarthy

August 29, 2022

How many narcissists does it take to screw in a light bulb? One. The narcissist holds the light bulb while the rest of the world revolves around them. 
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Mom and Dad
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Mom and Dad

By Stella McCarthy

August 29, 2022

Because my Mom and Dad are here now   --Stella McCarthy This was my three year old granddaughter’s (pictured to the right) answer to my question, “why are you acting...
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Three Questions
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Three Questions

By Tim McCarthy

August 29, 2022

My son, Timmy, listened patiently to my complicated description of a tough decision then asked me three simple questions: What is my goal? Why is that my goal? What will...
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Processing Input
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Processing Input

By Tim McCarthy

July 30, 2022

“You don’t trust me”. It hit me like a brick to the side of my head. But as I’ve grown older, I try hard to process input that I don’t...
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Reciprocal Giving
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Reciprocal Giving

By Tim McCarthy

June 30, 2022

Sounds oxymoronic.  It’s not. Exhibit 1:  When my Mom would hand a valuable keepsake to one of her children, I’d say “but Mom, you loved that piece”.  She’d respond: “I’d...
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Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket
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Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket

By Tim McCarthy

May 30, 2022

Each of us operates with a voice inside our head, our life’s narrator. Narrator seems a good term since it’s the voice that judges every thought we have, every action...
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The Business of Good
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The Business of Good

By Tim McCarthy

April 30, 2022

An owner/CEO recently asked me, “how do I start a foundation, so that I can give back?” My response was, “why not imbed giving into your business model?” While starting...
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Time Stretching Exercises
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Time Stretching Exercises

By Tim McCarthy

March 31, 2022

Oliver Burkeman subtitled his book 4,000 Weeks “time management for mortals”. Time and mortality are tough subjects that Burkeman faces head-on and with creativity and humor uncommon to self-help books....
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The Softening of Age
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The Softening of Age

By Tim McCarthy

February 28, 2022

Six of my nine brothers and sisters who remain earthbound gathered to kibbutz for a few days recently.   I was struck by the words my poet sister used in...
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Stopping or Starting
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Stopping or Starting

By Tim McCarthy

January 31, 2022

Starting things is what I’ve become good at. Stopping?   Not so much. Each fall, I review what I learned from the current year.   Then, using that information, I...
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Originals
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Originals

By Tim McCarthy

December 27, 2021

Famous quotes are enjoyable and instructive. I’ve compiled hundreds of my favorites since I began writing these newsletters in July of 1988. Most are from legendary folks like Churchill and...
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