What’s Next

For anyone asking what comes after the title, the paycheck, or the plan.

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Motivating Quotes
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Motivating Quotes

By Multiple Sources

February 28, 2023

For me, quotes are collections of words that make me think.   Whether famous or just from friends and family, my favorites cause behavior changes.   Below are from the...
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View from the Bottom
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View from the Bottom

By Tim McCarthy

January 31, 2023

The youngest of our three, Caitlin, and I have talked many times about the effects of watching our older siblings as we grow up. I had four sisters and four...
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Small Things Like These
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Small Things Like These

By Claire Keegan

January 31, 2023

Editor’s note:   The most beautifully written and poignant short story I’ve read.   Do not read “A Note on the Text” until the end.   It makes the story...
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That’s What the Lonely is For
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That’s What the Lonely is For

By David Wilcox

January 31, 2023

My divorced daughter and almost-divorced son and I have been talking a lot about loneliness lately.   In one conversation I recalled this song that I listened to constantly about...
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Ring the Bells
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Ring the Bells

By Leonard Cohen

January 31, 2023

"Ring the bells that still can ring Forget your perfect offering There is a crack, a crack in everything That's how the light gets in" -Leonard Cohen Kintsugi or golden...
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The Illusion Of Control
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The Illusion Of Control

By Tim McCarthy

January 1, 2023

I’ve been learning about control for a little more than 25 years. My initial work was on myself, and to this day, I strive to consider what I have control...
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Expectations are Thieves
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Expectations are Thieves

By Michael Utesch

January 1, 2023

Expectations are the thieves of joy. - Michael Utesch
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Stick Season
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Stick Season

By Noah Kahan

January 1, 2023

Editor’s note:  Thanks to son, Timmy, who shared this song with me during his holiday visit.  Beautiful voice, meaningful lyrics about his empty half. Favorite lyric: “Stuck between my anger...
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The Dyslexic Advantage
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The Dyslexic Advantage

By Brock and Fernette Eide

November 30, 2022

Editor’s Note: When I was school, I’m not sure dyslexia was even identified.  And so these kids seen as “stupid” or “slow learners”.  When my kids were in school, dyslexia...
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What You Want
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What You Want

By Tim McCarthy

November 30, 2022

My career has been a long series of “finding out what people want or need, then giving it to them”.  That, in very few words is how to succeed in...
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Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy
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Living Testimony by Tim McCarthy

By Tim McCarthy

October 31, 2022

This is a tribute article but more to the future than the past. My friend and mentor, Rich Clark, passed suddenly at 71 last month. Rich spent the first 18...
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Faith

October 31, 2022

"Faith over fear" -Unknown
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The Same Boat
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The Same Boat

By Ryan Montbleau

August 29, 2022

Editor’s note: Montbleau’s “75 and Sunny” was featured a few months ago here and I’m enjoying getting to know more of his discography.  “Same Boat” is a more traditional love...
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Three Questions
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Three Questions

By Tim McCarthy

August 29, 2022

My son, Timmy, listened patiently to my complicated description of a tough decision then asked me three simple questions: What is my goal? Why is that my goal? What will...
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Processing Input
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Processing Input

By Tim McCarthy

July 30, 2022

“You don’t trust me”. It hit me like a brick to the side of my head. But as I’ve grown older, I try hard to process input that I don’t...
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Living Our Best Life
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Living Our Best Life

By Kimberly Brown, “Living Your Real Best Life”

June 30, 2022

Because living our real best life is tethered to our intention to be happy and free and to help everyone else be happy and free, we don’t have to feel...
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Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket
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Shaping Our Jiminy Cricket

By Tim McCarthy

May 30, 2022

Each of us operates with a voice inside our head, our life’s narrator. Narrator seems a good term since it’s the voice that judges every thought we have, every action...
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Feeling Understood
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Feeling Understood

By Mardy Grothe

April 30, 2022

You don't have to completely understand people to make them feel completely understood. -Mardy Grothe
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When Your Mind Changes
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When Your Mind Changes

By David Loy

March 31, 2022

To become a different kind of person is to experience the world in a different way. When your mind changes, the world changes. And when you respond differently to the...
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Time Stretching Exercises
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Time Stretching Exercises

By Tim McCarthy

March 31, 2022

Oliver Burkeman subtitled his book 4,000 Weeks “time management for mortals”. Time and mortality are tough subjects that Burkeman faces head-on and with creativity and humor uncommon to self-help books....
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Four Thousand Weeks  - Time Management for Mortals
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Four Thousand Weeks  - Time Management for Mortals

By Oliver Burkeman

February 28, 2022

Editor’s note:  I’m only half-way through this gift from my son, Tim, but it’s likely to make my top ten of all time.   I’d call it self-help with a...
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