Quotes

“…the evidence led me to conclude that most [lives studied] had extended phases of what we might call happiness as a residual result, a marvelous side benefit, of the way they went about their lives.”

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“You aren’t wealthy until you have something money can’t buy”.

In an age of hyperconnectivity and distributed power, the divisions that once structured foreign affairs – like Communism versus Capitalism or the West versus the Rest – have broken down. Countries, now with more agency and more options, are fluid, opportunistic and contradictory in their relations. “Polyamory” is the new norm in geopolitics…

“Where there is no struggle, there is no strength. But when the struggle becomes overwhelming, strength also means knowing when to get help.”

“Presence is invitation enough. When we release the need to control outcomes, trust becomes possible.” The horses taught me, “Real leadership is not about control; it is about connection. It is about creating a field where others feel safe enough to be themselves,” whether horse or human.

“If you’re in a situation of conflict … you can’t hold yourself responsible for their feelings. Regardless of how they handle the situation, you need to speak your truth. You need to do it in a respectful way and then walk away knowing that you stood up for yourself.”

“You have to do the work wrong many times before you discover how to do it right.”

“I can’t be everything to everyone. I kind of made peace with it years ago—that at this particular phase of my life, this is what I need and this is what I want. It’s also the reason why I’m very particular about who I spend my time with because I do believe that there are genuinely energy vampires and energy catalysts in humans.”

If you look at the facts of something and write down your thoughts, you find that those thoughts lead to certain feelings, and those feelings lead to action. If you can practice new thoughts, you can change outcomes for yourself.